The doors opened and I walked right in to the ‘N’ train. I shoved myself through a crowd of people and leaned against one of the standing poles. Hhhhmmmm….what am I going to make for dinner tonight? Mind you that it’s about 8:15 in the morning and yep, I’m already thinking about dinner. My three-year old puts an immense amount of pressure on me when it comes to his meals. He has a very ‘selective’ palate. Honestly, I wish I could just grab a pizza, toss some salad and say, “It’s dinner time!”, and he’ll just gleam with joy. Nope, not my kid. He likes what he likes and these days, it’s not much. LOL! But anyways, where was I?
Oh right…I’m in the train and holding on to the pole when suddenly this young couple enters and, of course, stands right in front of me. The young lad grabbed his woman and pulls her right against his chest. I don’t want to be rude and stare at them so, I take out my IPod, of course, and scroll down to Lenny Kravitz. I touch on the song “Again”, don on my shades and pretend that I’m looking at one of the advertisement ads when, in fact, I’m actually staring at this young couple. I know…I know. I know what you’re thinking but just bear with me for a sec. Sheesh.
I really don’t want to stare at them but I can’t help but admire the love and affection they had for each other. Man, when was the last time someone looked at me like that?! I’m not even going to go there people. He takes a lock of hair and gently places it behind her ear. He kisses her left cheek and they hold each other’s gaze for what seemed like hours. She looks down and slowly and flirtatiously looks back at him. She looks at him with such fondness and regard and she softly kisses his lips. Awwwwwkwaaaaard. Now, my ride’s about a forty-five minute ride so, just imagine me witnessing this. It’s like watching a novella!
It’s truly astounding to see two people deeply and madly in love. Really, it is. After watching this cute couple drool over each other, I felt kind of convicted. Like I’ve mentioned above, when was the last time someone looked at me like that?! Well, the truth of the matter is this mi gente; people look at us like that every single day. Love is ALWAYS staring right at us….every single day! By whom?
My son who stares at me with such admiration and love.
The homeless person that you kindly gave money or food to.
The battered woman you’ve helped just by calling 911.
The elderly man you’ve volunteered to visit, in the nursing home, just to keep him some company.
The little girl you just served food to at the soup kitchen.
The handicapped person you bought groceries for.
The woman you gave an encouraging word to when she was having an extremely difficult day.
The mother who thought would never hear from her son but was surprised when he showed up at her apartment door.
Love stares right at us all of the time! These are expressions of LOVE. Whether you realize it or not, these people look at us with such love when we do heartfelt and selfless things. When we take the time to show that we care, when we genuinely display that we love people unconditionally, and let them know that they do matter.
Look, I might not have a man by my side, I might feel like a lonely queen without her king at times but I can tell you this. I do have my God, I have my precious son, I have my family and friends that I can say that love me tremendously and look at me with love and veneration. That, mi gente, is the best love one can receive! I’m the most richest and content person on earth because I am loved by amazing people who God has so graciously placed in my temporary life!!!
So, the next time you say to yourself, “Man, I wish I was loved like that”, just remember that you indeed are loved by not just one person but by many people. It’s staring right at you; you just have to open your heart, see it, and feel it for yourself.
Non-fiction Written by: Francoise M.
Quote: “And remember, as it was written, to love another person is to see the face of God.” — Les Miserables